a state of little or no change following a period of activity or progress
I was at lunch yesterday with one of my best friends and we were discussing our lives, future plans and past endeavors. And while we both tried to be positive and explain what we were both feeling, and what some of those around us who we are close to were also feeling, she hit on it. We're both stuck, waiting, on a flat part of life, on a plateau. We're between relationships, just chugging along in school, and although they made this new announcement of the change in missionary age for LDS girls, we were are both close enough to 21 that although this is a change, it wasn't like it changed that much for us. So we discussed this plateau we're on, and discussed how sooner or later, it's going to change, but we just were bored with this pause. And then we discussed what could bring about the change and new experiences we're craving, and how we'd miss this time that we had freedom and choices where our worlds revolved around us.
So we made a promise.
We're going to enjoy this plateau.
And make the most of this time. And enjoy being single. And enjoy looking ahead to decisions. And dreaming. And have fun. And make this plateau something we remember fondly, rather than wishing we had done more. So we'll enjoy this time of not being a child anymore, and not quite being thrown into the adult world quite yet, and having our little BYU-I bubble.
It's my friend Jerikah's and we've been busy posting randomness on her blog, including but not limited to freshmen, men, dates, cooking and raquetball. With british accents.
As we were watching the Democratic National Convention and Obama was speaking, the camera panned out and showed a group of people on their phones. Eric sat for a second looking at that and asked "Can you vote by text?" "No... This isn't American Idol..." "Oh..." He sat there puzzled for a while. So... Why can't we vote by text? Seems less complicated to me.
Grandma was here this weekend... here are a few excerpts from our conversations. Enjoy :) "Isn't he a hunk?! Come on. Megan, isn't he a hottie?!?!" (Speaking of a cousin...) "You know how to learn if someone isn't being faithful in a marriage? Watch a soap opera. They teach you everything to look for in a marriage where someone isn't being faithful." And my favorite... "Someone should probably go screw the tops of the bottles back on in the shower downstairs. I took them all off and I just can't screw at 10 0'clock at night. I just can't screw at 10. It's too late." (This is where we all burst out laughing) "Well I can't." (Looks at me and my sister) "And neither should you girls! No screwing at 10 at night!" (And all my self control left and I was left crying on the floor, shaking from laughing so hard.) "And get your minds out of the gutter!"
So for those that don't know, I've got this little obsession with Harry Potter. Only a little obsession though. I only re-read the series every summer- except last summer :(. And lets just say I'm having some serious cravings. For the books and the movies. Mostly the books. But I don't have copies at school :(
Anyone want to have a Harry Potter movie marathon?!?!
What does a sick nursing student do on a saturday night? Listen to her lung sounds of course. Result? Crackles in lower lungs- anterior and posterior. Dry, hacking unproductive cough Regular S1 and S2 Apical pulse 72
Breaking Up without Going to Pieces: When Dating Doesn't End in Marriage. By M. Gawain Wells- Ensign 1982.
I think all dating girls should get a copy of this article. Boys too. I wish I had had this article a year ago. I'm glad I stumbled upon it now! I think every "marriage age" person should read it if they haven't. It's an article about breaking up. Not about marriage, or getting answers. Breaking up. And it gives some good, real truths that take a lot of time to find out, and even longer to believe. So read this article.
I've gotten into a little bit of a habit lately on Facebook. I look through all of someone's profile pictures- friends or not. Its like people watching in snap-shots. You see the images of their past couple years that they have chosen to display to the world. You see them in high school all dressed up for dances, then a few pictures in college- always surrounded by friends, then comes the relationship pictures- them with the same guy for a while, then their engagement, followed by wedding pictures, and those go for a while- and then the baby pictures. This is usually preceded by belly pictures-month by month. Then the newborn pictures (these are some of my favorites.. :) ) and then for some it continues with that baby getting older and older. Then you reach the end and if you hit the "next" button again- you're back to high school. And here is my favorite part- to then go backwards and have them jump from high school to baby and just look at how their life has changed in the 3-5 years.
Then I always think about mine.
What will my life look like in 5 years?
Will I be surrounded by friends be happily single?
Will I be in a foreign place doing volunteer nursing?
Will I have pictures of me and my husband traveling?
Will I have the sweet little baby pictures up?
I honestly have no clue. I can't even tell you exactly where I want it to be. There's been times where I would have definitely told you I'd be married and probably having my first kid by then. And with more and more friends getting married and engaged- I'm feeling pretty left behind. I'll be graduated, and be an RN (if all goes according to plan for the next 3 months..) And I'm getting more and more interested in Nursing abroad (especially with Doctors Without Borders- but they're pretty intense..) So we'll see I guess. In 5 years from now I'll go through my Facebook profile and see where I've been and what I'm doing- It would just be nice to get that little snapshot.
So I found this recipe on Pinterest on how to make mozzerella cheese, and it looked delicious! And then my mom has been reading this book where this lady uses the same recipe to make mozzerella cheese. So we decided to make it. After spending all day getting all the ingredients and proper utensils, we finally started. And were following our directions pretty much perfectly. And guess what! We got a teaspoon of cheese! Wooo! Out of a gallon of milk. Yup. A whole measly teaspoon. Why? We're thinking our milk was too processed and wouldn't separate into whey and curds. So we're now hunting for raw milk. Anyone have a cow they want to share?!??!! I'll give you cookies!
4/30 Update-- We made it and it worked! Wahoo!! We used Raw Milk- and had to sign a waiver and informed consent to get it. But it worked! And the cheese was super yummy. Mmmm. But we did have to edit the recipe a bit to get it to work for us. But it made a good size amount of cheese :)