Monday, April 30, 2012

Snapshots

I've gotten into a little bit of a habit lately on Facebook. I look through all of someone's profile pictures- friends or not. Its like people watching in snap-shots. You see the images of their past couple years that they have chosen to display to the world. You see them in high school all dressed up for dances, then a few pictures in college- always surrounded by friends, then comes the relationship pictures- them with the same guy for a while, then their engagement, followed by wedding pictures, and those go for a while- and then the baby pictures. This is usually preceded by belly pictures-month by month. Then the newborn pictures (these are some of my favorites.. :) ) and then for some it continues with that baby getting older and older. Then you reach the end and if you hit the "next" button again- you're back to high school. And here is my favorite part- to then go backwards and have them jump from high school to baby and just look at how their life has changed in the 3-5 years. 

Then I always think about mine.
What will my life look like in 5 years? 
  Will I be surrounded by friends be happily single?
    Will I be in a foreign place doing volunteer nursing?
      Will I have pictures of me and my husband traveling?
        Will I have the sweet little baby pictures up?

I honestly have no clue. I can't even tell you exactly where I want it to be. There's been times where I would have definitely told you I'd be married and probably having my first kid by then. And with more and more friends getting married and engaged- I'm feeling pretty left behind. I'll be graduated, and be an RN (if all goes according to plan for the next 3 months..) And I'm getting more and more interested in Nursing abroad (especially with Doctors Without Borders- but they're pretty intense..) So we'll see I guess. In 5 years from now I'll go through my Facebook profile and see where I've been and what I'm doing- It would just be nice to get that little snapshot. 

3 comments:

  1. All I know from ALL of my vast experience, is that life is unpredictable. However, the key is to be happy wherever it takes you. You are blessed with a positive disposition and so in 5 years I can't tell you where you will be (I have my hopes for you too), but I can bet you will be happy! And who knows...there might not even be Facebook in 5 years!

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  2. 5 year...2017.. it's hard trying to even imagine what life will be like then.
    This is my plan for you that I just decided: 5 years from now you will have: traveled the world helping children, and will be happily married with 1 little boy and a baby girl on the way living right next door to me. We will have a little white picket fence separating our houses and will live in these little 1 story homes that have a ton of character. I will have a big tree in front of my house with a tire swing, you will have a swing on your porch and we will sit in them and reminisce about life while our kids play with each other. Yeah... I like that plan too! Haha.

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